Seeing the Positive in Unemployment Is That Really Possible -

Seeing the Positive in Unemployment Is That Really Possible -Its not always easy when youre unemployed, and you have been for a while. Youre going through a very challenging time, and Im not making light of it. I know it can be stressful and frustrating. To see the positive in unemployment you have to look for opportunity.The Opportunity to Socialize (errr network)The worst thing you can do is become a recluse. Most of the time, people do this out of a sense of shame or embarrassment about being unemployed, and this leads them to avoid family and friends. And it can be even mora serious. The depression brought on by the realization that we are NOT, in fact, indispensablecompounded by the stress that comes from worrying about financescan cause people to withdraw from societal relationships and seek an isolated existence. Keep in mind that youll get through this difficult time much more easily if you accept the support other people can offer. In addition, during this time its importa nt to network lunches, informational interviews, telling those you know about what you do and what youre looking for can open many doors of opportunity.The Opportunity to Figure Out What You Want to Be When You Grow UpSo many clients tell me that theyre still trying to figure out what they want to be when they grow up. Well, nows the perfect time to figure it out Do some soul searching volunteer for organizations you care about explore opportunities in areas you think you might be interested in, and talk to people who are currently doing what you think you might want to do ask questions and get more information. This is a great time to hold informational interviews with contacts who are successful in their given industry. Go here to read about using Informational Interviews to your advantage. The statistics of people who arent doing what they LOVE to do are staggering. Use this as your opportunity to figure out what you LOVEand then pursue that.The Opportunity to be PositiveStudies conducted on the average length of a job search during the 2008-2009 economic downturn found that job seekers who maintained a positive disposition and outlook about their job search found work much more quickly than those who viewed their situation with extreme negativity. Theres something to be said about positivity. I think the quote Whether you think you can or whether you think you cant, youre right fits perfectly here. Use this time to believe in yourself and THINK YOU CAN. Because YOU CAN and YOU WILL.The Opportunity to Invest in YourselfI coach clients through career changes and gaps in employment as part of our resume development process. One of the first questions we ask clients with gaps or unemployment in their career history is what did you do during the gap? What did you do while you were a stay-at-home mom? Chances are they volunteered, ran committees, planned projects, meetings, trips, took classes, continued their education, received new certificationsthe list coul d go on and on. So heres my pointif youre unemployed, look for the opportunity to invest in yourself (and your future career). Take classes, earn credentials or certifications, participate in events, volunteer. And keep track of what youre doing in the gap. Because that information can be invaluable in your job searchand on your resume.Unemploymentor a gap in employment on your resumeisnt the end of the world or the demise of your job search or career. Look for the opportunity The opportunity to socialize/network, to figure out what you want to be when you grow up. To be positive and to invest in yourselfall while conducting your job searchSpeaking of socializing, I mean networking Lets network on LinkedIn You can send me an invite here.

How To Manage 5 Types Of Difficult Personalities At Work

How To Manage 5 Types Of Difficult Personalities At Work We know we arent meant to be best friends with all of our work colleagues, but tzu siche are sure to be a few who you might butt heads with.However, by stepping back and reconsidering how to verstndigung im strafverfahren with them, their behavior, and the (sometimes thorny) conflicts that arise, its possible to have a better working relationship with office rivals for mutual success.Here are five faux foes partiealities at work (in other words, they dont have to be a negative weight at the office), and how to best work with them1. The StrategistThis colleague is a self-proclaimed big thinker.She (or he of course) is bold in her strategies.She is innovative and confident. Her ideas arent tweaks to tactics, or minor fests with minimal prep work. Instead, they are overhauls, disruptive strategies, or large-scale occasions. They require logistics, preparations, change management, policy revisions, trainings, or enterprise-wide soc ialization.The problem with this sort of strategist is that she is great when it comes to the big thinking, but elend so great with the execution. If this is someone with whom you work often (especially a peer), you may be stuck in a support role, failing at the execution of her idyllic strategy.Smooth (scribe for the next meeting with her (any strategist busy doing the big thinking wont likely be opposed to your offer to take the notes). Now take that opportunity to transcribe roles, responsibilities, and next steps.Afterwards, have the strength and poise to offer options such as if youre planning for a large event, Ive documented the next phase for this event, as follows order catering for 400, put together a panel of speakers, and ensure Facilities Dept. has the directions for room set up. Ive already volunteered for the panel, so would you prefer to do the catering request or to talk to Facilities? With a landmark event like this, well really need all hands on deck to ensure you r idea is executed well.Make sure the question is posed as either/or not any/none, which can instead create an awkward setting for an outright objection (i.e. offer tasks that are distributed, not a laundry list of things the other party must do to accomplish the goal). After a few events such as this, the strategist gains an appreciation for logistics and execution. The win-win result is that strategies will become more refined and effective through true teamwork.2. The PerfectionistThe good news this persons project plans are flawless, her presentations have no graphics misaligned, emails are bulleted and segmented with action elements, and links embedded.Why it gets difficult you reply to the action items and she asks you please to upload it to the Sharepoint, as requested in the action item with link embedded, rather than respond via email. You groan and follow directions. So you may have skimmed. But she got the information.Cant she go with the flow and add it to the document she was probably just looking at it it would have been shorter than writing back and asking you to uploadThe answer is no, she probably cant. This is who she is. This email was crafted with thought-out, with lots of energy and instructions because this is the way she operates best. It may not be the way you operate best. But if this person is leading a project, so this is the time to respect her workstyle and go with her flowSmooth ( It will save you time and prevent re-work.Next, if this is your project/presentation/job, and she is nitpicking with her perfectionism, you have two options (and consider these wisely before choosing)Listen to the feedback and learn something from it, or gently and professionally relay that while you appreciate the attention to detail on your font sizes, the priorities of the project are a, b, and c so lets focus our limited worktime on ensuring all changes are adding value from those perspectives.3. The HaterHave you ever had the feeling a colleague j ust didnt like you?You rack your brain, but cant imagine why.mora than likely you barely know her.Consider this.Maybe she doesnt.Has she said so?Have you heard through the grapevine she had it out for you?Does she really attack you outright?Or is it just a feeling that you get from her expression?Theres something that we like to say in the corporate world Assume positive intent. This means that unless you have true reason to think this person feels negatively toward you overall, assume she doesnt. So if comments or questions are professional and courteous at minimum, assume the person has no negative feelings toward you, and operate on that basis.We tend to feel things so heavily for ourselves that we assume any persons actions or reactions are a reflection of our own relationship. More often than not, they arent. Now, maybe this person isnt your biggest fan, truly. Maybe you have gotten off on the wrong foot, or you have rubbed them the wrong way.Smooth (s advocate-playing, and ge neral opposition.It might be in the form of questions (Do you think that timeline is even plausible?), comments (In my experience, marketing like this rarely works), or even body language (facial, or full body).Again, assume positive intent. More than likely, this person is just analytical. It is her habit to think things through, which means that every worst case scenario ever experienced or imagined needs to be brought up every time.Smooth ( Does this affect her job more than others? Does she have past experience with the project? Whether the variety of her dissent is constant, project- or person-specific, look on the bright side if your input is valuable, with that kind of dissenter in the room, shell make sure that all fhigkeit drawbacks will have been brought to light thus leaving you with very few lessons learned at the end of the project. And if it was your idea to start with, you will shine even brighter, due to her vigilant input so remember to thank her at the end of the project for highlighting potential snags to avoid.5. The IgnorerYou have written her three emails over the last two weeks.You need an answer, some feedback, a response.Should you follow up again?She is blatantly ignoring you.Maybe this is typical of her.It feels personal.You wonder, Am I not important?Smooth (s time to make contact after three emails and no response. So if you honestly need her response before you can move forward, its time to either a) pick up the phone b) stop by her office c) take advantage of a common meeting. Whichever option you go with, give yourself a pep talk beforehand. Actively decide not to take it as intentional if this is common for this person, take a moment to have sympathy if this is how she handles her work (or rather, doesnt handle her work), her performance is probably suffering. Or if this is a result of her workload (she is honestly so busy things slip through the cracks), her happiness is probably suffering.When you finally catch her, try not to make her jump to the defensive. Rather than saying, Ive been waiting for you to get back to me on ___ or even Did you get my emails on ___, start the conversation with a low pressure, Ive been meaning to follow up with you what did you think of ____. I really want to hear your thoughts. This shows you are focused on the value she adds to the project, not the fact she did not reply.After you have an intelligent (and, one hopes, friendly) conversation on the subject, end your dialogue with a direct, but not aggressive, reference for future communication something like, Im so glad we talked and Ill want your feedback again at milestone X. I know we didnt connect via email before, and that set us back a bit. Do you prefer to set meetings ahead of time, or should I give you a call instead, next time?Not only will this put the colleague on point to commit to further response, but you might just learned something about their communication style. It may be, No, email is great, but I g et so many that I categorize them by type next time if you put Action in the subject Ill be sure to flag it for follow up. Im so sorry I missed it this time Or it might be an honest, Actually, Ive been getting really behind on emailif you are ever missing something from me, Id really prefer a quick text reminder. But lets put something on the calendar now, so we dont get to that point again. Many people have valid preferences for communication. If you figure them out, not only are you more likely to get a response, but less likely to be negatively associated with that aversion.This article was originally published onSharpheels.Fairygodboss is committed to improving the workplace and lives of women. 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Whos Discussing Writing a Resume with No Job Experience and Why You Need to Be Concerned

Whos Discussing Writing a Resume with No Job Experience and Why You Need to Be Concerned A scarcity of job experience doesnt indicate too little work experience. If you wish to compose a resume and dont have any work experience then youre able to compensate with the things which you do have. Adhere to the tips above, and youll have a resume that compensates for the deficiency of knowledge and gets you the interview. If you need to compose a resume with very little or no experience, dont worry Even if you believe your teaching experience is minimal, its likely greater than you believe When you have some expert experience, you will want to cut back your education section drastically. From the example above, you will observe there are plenty of skills listed. All transferrable skills have to be mentioned. Sure, do not have any work experience in the appropriate field, but the hiring manager is getting a feeling of what you could accomplish and your character. Its possible f or you to consist of odd jobs which might or might not be associated with your intended job profile. Therefore, when you sit down to compose your first resume, attempt to consider your prior jobs in a new light. Choosing Good Writing a Resume with No Job Experience Unfortunately theres no one true way to compose a resume. Whilst you write your summary for your resume, attempt to think of what you want them to discuss with you, and what exactly you desire an opportunity to discuss. A free resume review may give you the confidence necessary to attack the work search with complete force. Bear in mind, your resume is just the very first step.